Dear all who have written, thank you for your responses, responses in the real sense of the word. I can feel you there, see your faces still, Janet you will always be with me. You know,. no one has to agree with what I say to be precious to me. I just wanted to write to say I am reading your words. And yes, when we are back in Melbourne, we will come to New Zealand if that is wanted. Now I am beginning to sound like a cult--no,no. I will write more tomorrow at day break--when all is fine shadows and oh so real.